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How often do you say the phrase: “I can’t wait …”, “Rather …”? Do you wake up on Monday morning with the thought: “Hurry up Friday”? When you feel overworked, do you think, “I can’t wait for a vacation”?
Many of us have such thoughts from time to time. The same thing happens with young parents after giving birth. You can often hear from them: “I can’t wait until he starts to walk”, “I can’t wait until he starts eating solid food” or “Rather, he learned to do it on his own.”
The parenting process is so amazing and interesting that parents look forward to the next stage. On the other hand, certain stages in the development of a child can be quite difficult and debilitating, so that parents cannot wait for them to finish. In such cases, it is difficult to maintain patience and not to rush until the child outgrows a difficult period. But the next stage is sure to come. Continue reading
American scientists say they can predict which couples will eventually divorce and which ones will be able to maintain happy family relationships. The point is the ratio of positive and negative interaction between spouses: in successful couples it is 5: 1. Scientists believe that this ratio is the key to prosperity in all respects, including between parents and children.
Life with all its conflicts and disagreements weakens the connection between loved ones. Parents must reestablish this connection with their children to counter such circumstances. While the children are separated from their parents, they are guided by the opinions of peers, teachers, opinions taken from the Internet, etc.
We interact with children physically, but it is equally important to maintain an emotional connection with them. It is almost impossible to effectively raise a child without establishing this type of connection with him. Therefore, it is better to think about how to prevent the problem of lack of emotional connection, until it arose. How to do it? Let’s try to figure it out. Continue reading
Are you planning a vacation with your family? If you have a small child, you should not expect that your vacation will be like an ordinary vacation together and that it will take place according to your plan. As soon as the child begins to walk, do not expect him to sleep or be in one place all day.
However, all of the above does not mean that your vacation with your child can not be pleasant. Take into account some features of such a holiday – and you will enjoy it.
1. Some of you will definitely be unhappy. In most cases, the child remains unhappy, but sometimes it can be you or your spouse. The key to overcoming this problem is your emotional flexibility. It may be difficult for a small child to understand that you have come to rest, and he may require full attention to himself. Make small concessions for the child, let him a little more than usual. Continue reading